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manic recreation
by M. E. Anders
Weekends can be stressful because we’re trained to feel inadequate
and lame if we don’t run with the bulls on Friday after work,
skydive onto the stage of a rock concert on Saturday, and take a
leisurely backpack trip across Europe on Sunday. Were supposed to
do all this on the meager salary we earn and squeeze it into a ridiculously
packed calendar of things we have to do.
I have an extremely social lifestyle, however it often feels more
like work than play. Despite of the diminutive size of my place
I have little parties most weekends. Sometimes it’s just a
few of us sitting around talking or playing games. We debate on
what’s wrong with the world and how to fix it or what good
music is and if it exists anymore or whether prison and even execution
is a relief for toppled dictators.
Sometimes we have a huge bash with twenty five to thirty people.
Music blasting, drinks flowing, food flying. (For those of you who
went to college, I know that thirty people doesn’t sound like
much of a bash, but picture that many people in your apartment right
now. OK then.) Somebody, or several somebodies will play guitar
and sing. Laughter is loud at jokes unheard in different parts of
the room. No one wants to be the first to go. Some don’t want
to be the last to leave. Some just don’t want the party to
end.
Eventually, even the stoutest of hearts has to admit defeat (though
I am reluctant) and the last good byes are said as the Velvet Underground
quietly whispers “All tomorrow’s parties” to a
now empty room. A last clean-up with thoughts of tomorrows events
before an exhausted collapse into bed (with delusions of reading
a book or writing a letter) and a sudden sleep that washes away
the need to worry about overdue bills and chronically neglected
laundry.
I dream in colors and sounds and tastes and smells (even though
I’ve heard you don’t do any of those things) and I wake
up with profound truths that will change my life. I won’t
write them down even though I keep a pen and pad nearby for just
such an occasion (because I know I can never forget something so
deep yet obvious.) By the time I am brushing my teeth, by brain
is twisted trying to remember that dream.
Another day begins where I feel the sand is pouring through the
hourglass of my life’s experience. I want to do more. I want
to feel more. I want to be more. The conflict with that part of
me that wants to just lay in bed for a few weeks to just “
catch up” is like a sword fight in an Errol Flynn movie. Who
is the good guy and who is the bad? I am frustrated with my waste
of time. I can’t get it back.
Well, instead of bickering at myself for my lost time, I get on
with the things I “have” to do before tonight, maybe
some laundry, maybe some cleaning, maybe some viral inoculation
for my computer. I know tonight I will see some live music. I know
tomorrow I will catch a movie and another live show. And then it
will be Monday. Ahh magic Monday, where I can take a break from
my manic recreation.
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